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Perhaps a female perspective will help you understand what is going on here.
If she likes you, she will tell you. You need to trust that she will do this. She doesn't believe the old adage that guys will only be a girl's friend if they're sexually attracted to them. In fact, she likely thinks you are the proof that this can't possibly be true. She doesn't think you are interested in her, and she is happy with your friendship. If she wanted more, she would have asked for it by now.
Not many men are interested in romantic books or movies. I realize that my experiences are limited. Still, every man I have met who had an interest in the genre came out during their college years. I'm not calling you gay, I'm just telling you that a hetero guy who enjoys romance novels is a rare individual. With all of your reading, you understand women's fantasies very well. Now get out there and use all of that gathered knowledge. You are in college. It is a time to experiment with love. Get out there and learn what it feels like first-hand to break someone's heart, and have your heart torn apart in return.
Stop pining over a high school girl. You are ready for more than fantasy.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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