Cimarron29414

For the record, I agree with James T Kirk, under a certain circumstance. If one views the primary function of their mate to be satisfying their sexual needs, then by all means, work his list of options. If one views their mate as a partner in all aspects of life, then one probably will not find a mate who is perfect in every respect and one might make sacrifices in one area to have a great mate in others. Ralphie, it really sounds like you are a standup guy who wants to improve all areas of his life by starting where it has the greatest effect - with himself.

For the record, JTK, Ralphie didn't ask how to turn his wife into a nympho, he asked how to improve her sex drive. The number one reason women list for not feeling like having sex is.............exhaustion. So, my suggestions were to address the rule - as I said.

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