big breasts and round arses; and educated, so I can...
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Erm, in terms of a serious answer, I dont think you can name 5 things - because when you meet the right person you tend to think all the things about them are your favourite and you cant really be objective: but I would say 5 things I couldnt take
1 - I couldnt date someone who was an absolute idiot (Im not saying I am an intellectual or anything, but I couldnt date someone who just never thought or reflected about anything
2 - I couldnt date someone who was cruel, spiteful, who put people down or bullied people.
3 - I couldnt date someone who was politically very far right (ie - doesnt like immigration, comes out with "they come over here and..." type comments)
4 - I couldnt date someone I wasnt attracted to physically (although if you connect with someone emotionally I think you find them a lot more attractive than someone with the same looks you dont care about)... but there is an element that just a shalow judgment of looks comes into it. This may sound pretty hypocritical as I am conscious I am not at all attractive, but its how it is and you cant lie about it (not to yourself anyway)
5 - I couldnt date someone who was obsessively jealous/controlling
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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