Ok, here's a list from me:
1: Boobs. Well, ok, I guess this is 'attractiveness', but I really wanted to say 'boobs' just now. Boobs.
2: A sense of fun. She has to be ok with being silly for no reason at all. This is a little bit different from a sense of humor, or maybe broader.
3: A sense of self-worth. A lot of women I've been with are, frankly, damaged goods. And I'm sure there's reasons, and I feel for them, but I can't fix them. That said, everybody gets down about themselves from time to time and needs to be supported and built up. So (I hope) I'm not being unrealistic or anything.
4: Not a slob. I'm far from the neatest person ever, but there's a line between 'messy' and 'dirty'. I couldn't be with someone who crosses that line.
5: I'm gonna steal one from the OP: "Kind". That pretty much says it all.
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