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All right, boys. Back to ChickenMuffin.
ChickenMuffin,
Your attitude towards your ex-girlfriend creeps me out. You need to walk away, as other have advised here, for your own good and for hers. You have a lot of personal growth to go through before you're ready to be in a relationship again, and I do believe you have a lot of realizations to come to about other people before you should pursue having another girlfriend.
You must realize about this theoretical future girlfriend:
1) Your girlfriend is not your property. She is her own human being, and you should repect that.
2) Your girlfriend is free to check out any man that she likes, and not tell you about it.
3) What's good for the goose is good for the gander, or in this case, what's good for the gander is good for the goose.
4) Your girlfriend is free to fantasize about any man that she likes, and not tell you about it.
5) Your girlfriend's body is her own, not yours. She doesn't have to tell you about every single thing that may be wrong with it.
6) Your girlfriend is free to masturbate on her own when you're not around if she so chooses.
I really feel like the above list is just the tip of the iceberg, though. Your behaviors towards your girlfriend and your attitudes about her and your relationship truly trouble me. You are in a very, very unhealthy place. Let her go, walk away, and work on understanding what's appropriate in relationships and what isn't, please.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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