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Originally Posted by Plan9
Seriously, Lunx? Alright... I mean, KirStang gets that side... but I'll rephrase it for the good of the thread.
Here's the thing as far as I see it:
Exclusivity and reputation are two issues in relationships that have to deal with your partner's naked body.
Exclusivity is an amorphous concept that states, "Only my partner gets to see/fondle/fuck My Goodies." I'd say it's pretty common.
Reputation is an amorphous concept that states, "Being naked/acting lewd in public may negatively effect my future at some point."
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Another important variable is the Nutjob Factor:
The Nutjob Factor states that a partner, after a certain period of time, should be pretty predictable and not deviate from their normal behaviors.
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More basic math:
Relationships are based on mutual understandings of standards for behavior and life goals and all that happy Dr. Phil horseshit, right?
The issue here isn't that old girl was shaking her delicious jumblies at three dozen Earls, but that she was doing it without Fry knowing.
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Pretty much this. I understand why some of the feminist posts take issue with what I refer to as 'mine', but it's not so much a possession issue as it is a mutually-agreed upon exclusivity issue. She literally told me three days prior that her body 'was mine only' so you can understand why I'd be taken for a loop. Hope that clears things up.