Sorry, another lady responding, but I think it's valuable to have both sexes respond since it's not a same sex couple.
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Originally Posted by bitsoda
This may sound silly to some of you, but her body is now less special to me. Knowing that she's not my girl and that others have seen it cheapens the experience for me.
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Was she a virgin when the two of you got together? If she wasn't, someone has seen her naked already...and was more intimate with her than the guys watching her strip. Sorry to bring it up, but she's a grown woman....I assume. If she's not, well we're in a whole new place.
Also, she's not YOUR girl. She doesn't belong to anyone. Seeing the way you are referring to her makes it sound like your possession. There may be other things you need to address.
Stripping may not be about pleasing men. Some women think it's powerful. It has been debated, but sex has been said to be women's number one weapon. Publicly stripping could have been something she has wanted to do.
Whatever it is you need to talk to her. She was honest with you about the stripping, you should be honest with her how you feel.