Originally Posted by Charlatan

She5, I know a lot of people are going to probably jump all over your post but before they do, I'd just like to point out that the majority of research into this area suggests that you are wrong. Sexual orientation is mostly pre-determined. Further to this most suggest that orientation is a spectrum rather than a yes/no proposition and as such, those who live in the middle of that spectrum are more likely to be able to choose than someone at either end.