I've met my last 3 partners on Adult Friend Finder (since October, and turned down 4 other opportunities because I was happy with what I had/have)... They've been enough to keep me busy lately.
And yes, I've paid for the site membership, but there's enough amateur porn on there to keep it worthwhile as well.
The nice thing, as a recently separated 43 year old guy... You know that they're interested in the same thing as you. No playing games in a bar, no making googly eyes in the produce aisle. I hadn't been on a first date in 18 years.
Yes, there's some fake ads on there, but basically I just ignore anyone under 33 and not in my immediate area. Problem solved.
C