That's exactly the reply I needed!
Except can I skip 'fuck strangers', that one never worked for me and always left me feeling like a crying tramp. Not a good look on anyone's arm that one.
I've posted about it before, so I don't feel the need to go into detail, perhaps because of shame, I took him back too many times, but here you go:
- Girl meets boy
- Get along, good times, nice sex, deep connection
- Boy reveals used to be a pothead
- Goes back to it
- Starts behaving like a dick
- Break up - boy kisses another girl in front of girl to get back at girl because a year before they got together girl had kissed one of his acquaintances
- Get back
- Girl gets pregnant - boy pushes for termination
- Girls goes through with it, boy is shitty at supporting her emotionally (as pothead)
- Break ups (numerous)
- Boy starts busting up flat during fights etc
- Breaks (numerous)
- Break of 5 months after boy hits girl, leaves girl on holiday alone
- Get back together after boy buys house, seems to have settled a bit, quit weed, getting straight
- Boy goes right back to being unreliable, moody, antisocial (except when they break up he's always out) and being agressive and pothead and doesn't really seem to want her in his life much at all
- Girl gives boy ultimatum to stop
- Boy chooses weed
I could go into more detail but I really don't want to bore you guys, I just need the detailed plan of how to rid myself of this and GET OVER. IT.
x