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Old 03-21-2011, 12:05 PM   #7 (permalink)
eribrav
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Originally Posted by genuinegirly View Post
It's a very special link when a quiet person finds another wallflower to love. Long stretches of silence are comforting rather than awkward. I married a man who can at times be outgoing and carry a conversation, as I can when I see a need. But we are both introverts at heart and we spend many wonderful evenings in relative silence, speaking when we have something to say, but mainly enjoying the peaceful comfort of the life we have built together.

Yes, silence can be a wonderful thing.
Great post.
To the OP: No matter how wonderful you may be it would be like pulling teeth for me to talk to you on the phone for 2 hours every night. I just wouldn't enjoy it.
Like GG said, silence can be golden. My wife and I can be together for hours without speaking a single word yet we couldn't be any closer.
Granted that's not a state your relationship will reach after only a month.
Be patient.
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