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I've been married for 14 years, and there were some stretches when we wouldn't have sex for months. I translated this into "she doesn't want to" or "she's not attracted to me."
Then I just started initiating it more and came to realize that she did enjoy it, but just never initiated it. Now our sex life is as good as it's ever been, but it only happened because I stopped feeling sorry for myself and started going for what I wanted.
BTW, that was just a personal anecdote, not a response to the TC
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