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Old 03-20-2011, 01:52 PM   #94 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Redlemon View Post
Who knows? I internally flipped out when I found out that my college freshman girlfriend had slept with ONE other guy. I got over it 22 years ago, we're married now.
And therein lies the rub, because you freaked out about one guy, which if she sensed was going to be problematic due to your nature, was a fib in the first place just to test the water and see how you would react. If you did react about the one guy you will never know anything else, that's the way it is.

Guys who flip out about sexual things in any way shape or form will never know their partner's real sexuality, their wife or girlfriend will simply keep that part of herself a secret. It's a huge percentage of married people that don't share their experiences or fantasies with the one they are married or living with.

My favorite thing in the world is getting someone to trust me enough to tell me their dark secrets and fantasies. I love it when I bring out a sexual side of a woman that may have been repressed all of their lives because guys do freak out about different things that might come out.

I have put it out there to engaged women right before they are going to get married that they owe themselves one last chance to turn loose for one of the greatest nights they've ever had in bed. You would be amazed about how many women will go for that, and I'm talking the uptight and straight laced ones that you'd never believe it of. I'm convinced that it wouldn't happen if they had guys who were open and easygoing about sex between them, they wouldn't be curious like that. What makes sex great is being able to be really open and honestly direct, what's more direct than suggesting one last fling that's purely about sex and nothing else?

I love a woman that has been with a fair number of men because they love sex, and you know what? They are a hell of a lot better in bed generally speaking than uptight women are.
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