Both partners have to be committed to the idea of the relationship for it to work. This includes sharing fuel costs and making an effort to see each other. Meeting in the middle is not necessarily a practical solution, depending on how long you intend to visit and the amount of options for entertainment at that midpoint. If she isn't interested in finding a way to see you regularly when there's less than a 2 hour drive involved, I'm pretty sure it's just her way of saying she's "just not that into you."
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