My external responses are rarely affected by how attractive I find a person. I deal with people who are disfigured or dealing with chemo, etc. and I try to respond the same way that I would talk with anyone else, including people I find attractive. I've been told my coworkers and friends that I am successful at this most of the time. These "attractive people" not being famous people or whatnot... if that was the case, I'm not sure what the effect would be. However, I have had a lot of experiences lately with wholly externally attractive people that open their mouths and/or expose their personality whom I just want to bitch slap and walk away. So I try to start off treating everyone the same. Your internal attractiveness is what affects my interactions.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand
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