KirStang

I don't know Red Lemon, I'm not so sure having a third party sexual relationship is necessarily beneficial to Hulk...

While I am a major proponent of 'Working Things Out' she crossed a line, then, after breaking Hulk's heart by dropping a C-bomb, still goes over to her paramours house since her boyfriend, who's recovering from a major medical condition "is a bad lay."

And now she proposes staying together while she fucks a stranger?

I think the situation's toxic all around.

Look Hulk, I think you should seriously talk to her--that this is not something you are not willing to tolerate and will leave her unless she cuts off the behavior. (Unless of course you are okay with the proposed arrangement, then ignore all this, but from what you've said, it doesn't sound like something you are happy with). In addition, I feel like the arrangement she's suggesting makes you the equivalent of a doormat.

Before I go all divorce lawyer on you, you can probably try speaking with her, telling her you love her, that you appreciate her being around while you recover from your illness, but that her actions cannot happen in your relationship.

/Rant

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.....in the alternative...

Who pays the mortgage and who holds title to the home? How is the home titled?

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