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Old 03-03-2011, 09:39 AM   #35 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by jewels View Post
No sleeping with him? Hardly the occasional fuck, even if this is acceptable as far as hulk's concerned. The fact that she chose to do it with no conversation and total disregard for him is appalling, especially under these circumstances. When a woman feels neglected by someone who's physically incapable of fulfilling those needs, she ought to at least start a conversation before abandoning and neglecting the one she purportedly loves.

This arrangement leaves her nights with the other guy and you, hulk, lonely and insecure, being used for what you can do for her, or else it's her way of keeping you on the proverbial back burner.
I agree, it was appalling, but I still see a chance for fixing things. I hate to see something thrown away that could be fixed.

There's all sorts of other arrangement possibilities: only sex with the other guy when Hulk is (in the room/in the house)? No sleepovers? Not this guy, but some other guy that Hulk approves of, and understands the situation from the start with appropriate boundaries?
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