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Originally Posted by Redlemon
What if she still loved and cared for you, and she still went to this other guy for an occasional fuck? Sex, while important, is not necessarily the only part of a marriage. There have been stranger arrangements made by other people.
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No sleeping with him? Hardly the occasional fuck, even if this is acceptable as far as hulk's concerned. The fact that she chose to do it with no conversation and total disregard for him is appalling, especially under these circumstances. When a woman feels neglected by someone who's physically incapable of fulfilling those needs, she ought to at least start a conversation before abandoning and neglecting the one she purportedly loves.
This arrangement leaves her nights with the other guy and you, hulk, lonely and insecure, being used for what you can do for her, or else it's her way of keeping you on the proverbial back burner.
Playing devil's advocate, it may be worth one more shot at a conversation. But if there are no straight answers, I'd definitely agree with the majority here. If she's not able to say that she wants to spend her life with you, if she can't sleep with you regardless of your current physical condition ... it's time to let her go.