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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Do men really feel ready to fuck someone else immediately after breaking up? Or is it something you feel you have to force yourself to do? Like a rite of passage of some sort?
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Men really feel ready to fuck, period. I've had sex immediately after a break-up (the lady-friend was made well aware it was going to be a one-time thing), and, like every other time I've had sex, it relieved physical, mental, and emotional stress. Sex with someone you don't love isn't as meaningful, but it's still sex. It wasn't about moving on or getting back or anything but simple release.
I'm convinced that men and woman don't have the same experience during sex. Sure, we both feel pleasure and emotional connection and release, but based on discussions I've had, I don't think it's the same thing, and I think this topic highlights the difference. Let me put it this way: I could fuck an ugly woman I don't like at all when I'm not in the mood and it would be awesome. It's not that men don't get emotional about sex, but I'm not sure emotion is at the center of the act for men to the same degree it is for women. Would you (not just MM, but any TFP lady) have sex with an ugly man you don't like when you're not in the mood?