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Originally Posted by dlish
maybe he wanted to hear it and she told him the reason.
its not an excuse for infidelity, but they may be valid reasons for the breakdown of the relationship.
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I was not commenting on the validity of any reasons and assigning any blame. I was pointing out that her inability to take responsibility for the part in it she had is a large indicator any energy spent "fixing" this would be one-sided or done for the wrong reasons, and that she doesn't have any sort of perspective or maturity about the whole thing.
I just assume if someone cheats on someone else, things were pretty messed up beforehand, and both parties knew or should have known it in a majority of situations. Of course, everyone thinks they are in an unique situation, and they are partially right. 
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