Isn't the point of these parties/get togethers/meets/munches/etc that they help the younger inexperienced crowd learn what it is to be in the "lifestyle"? Maybe they don't know they look like posers, maybe they are just getting started in it and don't know any better.
I've heard that many parties are supposed to be welcoming for all and clothing is optional as is play. From what I have read it is hard to find a real group that actually is serious about things.
That all being said, who is to judge what some one else's take on a fetish is?
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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