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Old 02-16-2011, 04:57 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I don't think there is an equivalence of expectations created in mainstream television/film vs porn.

For many men (and women) our first experience of sex comes through porn. We have no previous experience with which to compare. While later experiences with actual sex can temper this I don't think it is a stretch to suggest that porn colours our expectations.

To be clear, I recognize that there is an abundance of variation. I am not really even talking about fake tits and bleach blonde hair. I am talking about sex and understanding of the mechanics of sex. I am also talking about how fetishes for things like facials and anal develop (i.e. not in a vacuum).

Again, this is not simple cause and effect thing. Like the human psyche, it's more complicated than that.
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