Originally Posted by purplelirpa

My boyfriend and I went through this when we first met. There were a lot of odd coincidences in how we met each other, for a while it seemed like it must just be a strange glitch in an enormous computer program. So, one coincidence after another finally left us feeling this sort of surreal unreality for about 2-3 months.

The daily grind set in, and a lot of repetition left us really unable to sustain the level of hyper-vigilance that one must have when being so suspicious of one's surroundings.