Chumley

Well, I lost mine w/my high school gf, we were both virgins, I 17, she 15. We had gone on a ski trip together (a HS ski trip that turned out NOT TO HAVE ANY CHAPERONES, lol) where we shared a room. But we shared it with 2 of her friends, so we turned out not to have any proper opportunity. So we shacked up in my 3rd floor bedroom one afternoon the next weekend. We took it really slow, it took forever, literally hours, to work through the foreplay and I went real slow with the entry. I don't remember having erection problems. We didn't really have "sex" as I came to know sex later -- it was more of a welcome party we threw for her uterus, with my member as the new guest that she had to get used to. I think there was a little blood, and I'm not sure she enjoyed it that much. I enjoyed it emotionally, but it was unmemorable physically. It was something we had to do, to get to the good stuff which came later.

I did, I believe, become a different girl's first later on --- I worked on a cruise ship for a while, and there was this younger lady on board for one of the cruises, and we spent a lot of time together, and eventually ended up doing the horizontal mambo. I Clueless (that's me, sorta like I Claudius) didn't figure out that her virginity was in the equation til later, piecing the signs together that a)she was on a mission, clearly wanted to git 'er done, and b)how tight she was. I didn't hurt her too much, I don't think - I'm not huge nor particularly rough. And... she never contacted me again. Like one of the early posters, I tink I got played....