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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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Originally Posted by Shauk
It's a lot easier to shut the doors and board up the windows, delete people from phone/facebook, put your fingers in your ears and go "lalalala" this person doesn't exist but that's always seemed like a grade school tactic to me. Seems like there should be a more adult way of handling ones personal affairs.
Funny thing is, if you can make yourself stop caring, you can at least tell how sincere someone is by how often they stay in touch with you once the sex is out of the picture.
It's funny how some girls who split with me went from wanting to see me daily or weekly to not even really wanting to talk monthly. Whereas it's the opposite with some where we talk almost every day or week now, and their either married/engaged whatever now *shrug*
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There is an adult way. It's called moving on.
We're not talking about friendships here, we're talking about romantic relations, which involve intimacy and all the emotions and hormones that accompany them.
I used to wonder how come I would always find myself in some weird situations like picking up friends from very dark or hazardous situations of their own creation. After 10 years I realized that they never got it, they shouldn't keep putting themselves in these situations. Right, it wasn't their doing, wasn't their fault, something happened and then they found themselves in a fight, barrel of a gun. No, really after close examination I found it was them that put themselves squarely in harms way by doing stupid things. I have enough of my own stupidity to deal with let alone dealing with some one else's.
Now about you talking to your exe's every day and shit, remember that women are the more "talk about their feelings" as opposed to wanting to have sex. What I'm probably too tired to explain is that why do they need to have any intimate relationship with you? They don't need to buy or even rent the cow when they get the milk for free.
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