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Don't drag on something that's supposed to be over. Visiting him will only complicate things. I don't know if you have the ability to, but tell him you need your space, and cut him off.
Damn, I wish I could be more eloquent about this...
If you two are truely over, then in order to move on, the two of you need to wash your minds of the memories associated with each other. IIRC, the psych texts in college said that part of the pain associated with breaking up is the cognitive dissonance created by seeing something once associated with your mate, with the concomitant realization that your mate's no longer there.
In order to get past those associations to your mate, you need to start disassociating yourself from him.
Don't prolong a train wreck. Take the hit and move on.
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Originally Posted by Lieber Code on the laws of war
"Men who take up arms against one another in public war do not cease on this account to be moral beings, responsible to one another and to God."
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