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-mia · 01-23-2011, 03:16 PM

Ive been discussing having a bdsm relationship with a friend. We've discussed rules and other things. I've been doing some research on the subject and need some advice. While reading up on the matter it talked alot about love being necessary between and dom and sub. So my question is in your opinion is it alright to go into such a relationship with out having the love factor? We aren't close friends but I get good vibes from him that he is an all around good human being. He has some experienced and I am not, though I've always been attracted to this sort of thing. We've established that this is a sort of experimental thing more than anything. Also he'd be the dom and I'd be the sub. so what are your thoughts and suggestions?

01-23-2011, 03:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
-mia Upright	bdsm- first time advice Ive been discussing having a bdsm relationship with a friend. We've discussed rules and other things. I've been doing some research on the subject and need some advice. While reading up on the matter it talked alot about love being necessary between and dom and sub. So my question is in your opinion is it alright to go into such a relationship with out having the love factor? We aren't close friends but I get good vibes from him that he is an all around good human being. He has some experienced and I am not, though I've always been attracted to this sort of thing. We've established that this is a sort of experimental thing more than anything. Also he'd be the dom and I'd be the sub. so what are your thoughts and suggestions?