Direct. Competent. Adult values. I value adult vibes and guys who can take care of themselves and competently run their own lives. Without a mom.
Mentally quick. Intelligent without being either ponderous or flighty.
Confident and purposeful. Consistent and steady, with direction.
Honest and responsible in word and deed. With a warm but not bleeding heart.
Expressive and appreciative. Quirky but not too weird.
Hard to articulate, but (apologies to Justice Potter Stewart) I know it when I see it.
Lindy
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