| Direct. Competent. Adult values. I value adult vibes and guys who can take care of themselves and competently run their own lives. Without a mom.
 Mentally quick. Intelligent without being either ponderous or flighty.
 
 Confident and purposeful. Consistent and steady, with direction.
 
 Honest and responsible in word and deed. With a warm but not bleeding heart.
 
 Expressive and appreciative. Quirky but not too weird.
 
 Hard to articulate, but (apologies  to Justice Potter Stewart) I know it when I see it.
 
 Lindy
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