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Thanks Zenda.You made a very good point about seeing a counsellor now.I always thought of it as a last resort instead of getting a head start on this situation. I will admit-it will be a difficult thing for me to do but I have started to look up some names of counsellors.
One thing that has been mentioned in these posts is the fact that my sister in law must have personality traits that I must fill a void for me.Other than being out going and spontaneous,she doesn't hold a candle to my wife.I have even compared them on paper to try to make sense of this.My wife has all the traits most men would want in a wife. Loving.devoted,wonderful cook,great mother,very attractive,loves sex and loves to spend time with her husband. My sister in law is almost the opposite. Really doesn't make sense on paper but I guess not everything in life makes sense.
Anyway,thanks again for for comments.
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