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Old thread I know, but I just recently got into the same situation as the OP.
Met a great girl online, few dates, kissing, then she made me a great dinner (not common in women these days).
She had already told me that she needed to tell me something. I figured that it was that she smoked. Wrong, she has herpes and her very first boyfriend gave it to her. After that she was married for 10 years and her ex never showed symptoms, but never got tested either. She says she has not had an outbreak in years, but can 'feel' one coming and won't let anybody near hear until it's over.
I have read lots of stuff because she is otherwise a great girl.
She also says that my reservations since she has told me is all that she needs to know about how I feel. She thinks that I will always be paranoid or hold it against her. She may be right, she may be wrong.
This is a tough spot to be in.
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