If you are no longer sleeping with/ having sexual relations with your common law husbad, why should this ie the addition of a relationship, make your life worse- If you are in fact in that twilight friends who married and now are distant stage, why not ask your husband if he would mind- he too may have needs he has to fill, and it sounds like you both have been neglecting those needs- misery does not love company, and if you both sit down and discuss where your lives are going you likely will have a better chance at happiness whether or not you bang your cousin like a howler monkey in heat..... and hell, a miserable life is not guaranteed if you just take control of your life and take steps to be happy.....
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