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Originally Posted by Shauk
See, it IS hard for me to understand. I guess you feel you can just jump on the next seaworthy boat that passes through your waters with little effort, but personally, I like giving each person a 101 point inspection before I deem them a complete failure. I'm sure anyone in here has put an awkward foot forward and been judged way too soon before your true potential shone through. I wouldn't want anyone to dismiss me so quickly, I'm not about to be a hypocrite.
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There's a marked difference between being a judgmental hypocrite and and an individual with a well developed criteria of qualities you'd expect a potential partner to meet before investing anything in them. Not only for the sake of sheer compatibility but to ensure your head and heart aren't unnecessarily fucked with.
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Originally Posted by Shauk
non-issue at this point, had it continued down that path, had she not expressed her intent to break up with her anyway, I would have had much stronger reservations. The point has come and gone, but you seem to like to dwell on irrelevance.
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Alright well then setting aside entirely all questions concerning her admittedly questionable sexuality and the obvious extent to which she must be reeling from its plasticity - why be anyone's rebound? People need time after a relationship to reflect and get closure and make sense of all that's transpired, don't you think you should be more careful than to involve yourself with someone who, to use your metaphor, may just be jumping from one ship to the next?
All in all, cheers and good luck with this stuff. Take care of yourself.