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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
You can feign an inability to understand, twist what's been written and assume as much as you'd like about myself or anyone else that's responded but this isn't about us, it's about you. I've substantiated much of the claims I've made in this discussion by putting it out there that I've done plenty of the same shit you're doing now. Cut the shit already.
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Actually it's not about you, it's not about me either, it's about the situation. It's only about you in so much that I'm honestly asking how you would approach the situation, but you make it clear that you would have given up on it already, so now that you're bored with that conclusion, you've no choice but to come after me for causing the scenario to remain in play.
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We all come with baggage and issues but anyone can see that you seek out the especially broken, especially complicated and highly likely to fuck you over types. There's a world of women out there who don't need saving, surely you can find one if you cared enough to look.
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Actually I'm quite introverted towards relationships, every one of my successful (relatively speaking) relationships that have lasted over a year, and in one case, almost 5 years, was from them seeking me out and initiating the chase, so to speak. I feel like this is a rare case where we both saw each other online before we knew we were being set up by our mutual friend, had that mutual attraction, and for once, it's not one sided. However, yes, the only red flag, which is more just a red herring than an actual flag at this point, is that she was in a relationship at the time when she agreed to meet me. She did not expect to hit it off as well as we did. Nor did I.
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I'm not predicting the future nor am I denying your ability to make it work with this girl. I'm questioning your standards. I imagine most of us here would've walked away from this situation before it got off the ground. None of this is that hard to understand.
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See, it IS hard for me to understand. I guess you feel you can just jump on the next seaworthy boat that passes through your waters with little effort, but personally, I like giving each person a 101 point inspection before I deem them a complete failure. I'm sure anyone in here has put an awkward foot forward and been judged way too soon before your true potential shone through. I wouldn't want anyone to dismiss me so quickly, I'm not about to be a hypocrite.
Precisely the problem with your participation in this thread if you ask me.
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It's not only about sex. You honestly think the best way for her to sort out her own sexuality is in some kinda-sorta cheating relationship limbo with you? Seriously?
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non-issue at this point, had it continued down that path, had she not expressed her intent to break up with her anyway, I would have had much stronger reservations. The point has come and gone, but you seem to like to dwell on irrelevance.
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A little introspection and a slice of humble pie would do you good. Whether you care enough to accept it, you've asked for every word of advice offered here, the least you could do is graciously agree to disagree.
Ultimately, save yourself, Hasselhoff.
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I'll make the concession that I asked for it, and agree to disagree then.