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Originally Posted by Shauk
Again, it's not my fault that they're broken and fucked up, but yes, maybe it's my fault for giving them that chance that YOU wouldn't, just because I'm far more forgiving than you may be of a situation or scenario.
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You can feign an inability to understand, twist what's been written and assume as much as you'd like about myself or anyone else that's responded but this isn't about us, it's about you. I've substantiated much of the claims I've made in this discussion by putting it out there that I've done plenty of the same shit you're doing now. Cut the shit already.
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Originally Posted by Shauk
Manic, I'm 31, I've had my share of dating. "good women" don't really exist, hell "good people" hardly exist...
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We all come with baggage and issues but anyone can see that you seek out the especially broken, especially complicated and highly likely to fuck you over types. There's a world of women out there who don't need saving, surely you can find one if you cared enough to look.
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Originally Posted by Shauk
I'm not taking advantage of her, the way you state it, I only have bad things to look forward to here, at least she gains the benefit of figuring out what she actually wants, while enjoying a bond with me that she enjoys enough to seek me out (even if it's temporary, You cannot predict the outcome any more than I can, so stop shitting me and telling me "how it is" when you dont KNOW yet how it is or will be)
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I'm not predicting the future nor am I denying your ability to make it work with this girl. I'm questioning your standards. I imagine most of us here would've walked away from this situation before it got off the ground. None of this is that hard to understand.
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Originally Posted by Shauk
What you CAN honestly try and discuss here, is what kinds of things I should be asking, figuring out, considering, to get to know the real her and possibly help her learn about herself as well.
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Nah, no thanks.
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Originally Posted by Shauk
in all this time, sex was only brought in to the picture once, and I freaked out and couldn't do it. So again, taking advantage of her? fuck no. I've given her time to reconsider her advances, she's setting all of this up so far.
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It's not only about sex. You honestly think the best way for her to sort out her own sexuality is in some kinda-sorta cheating relationship limbo with you? Seriously?
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Originally Posted by Shauk
If you want me to break it off then fine, I'll just go back to meaningless dates that I dont write about, but for fucks sake, can I not entertain the idea of a relationship without people getting on my fucking shit about it? Does everything have to be perfect for you people?
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A little introspection and a slice of humble pie would do you good. Whether you care enough to accept it, you've asked for every word of advice offered here, the least you could do is graciously agree to disagree.
Ultimately, save yourself, Hasselhoff.