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Here's the thing: where is the line? Where is the line between treating a person with respect and dignity...and being satisfied sexually in a relationbship with someone with a lower sex drive? I treat my girlfriend respectfully, always, both publicly and in private. I am interested in her as a person, her background, her family, her friends, her likes/dislikes. Perhaps she disagrees, at least with the demands I put on her for sex. Its taken a weird turn where Ive told her I suffer from Satyriasis and am seeing a shrink for medication to help me lower my sex drive to sustain this relationship. I asked her last night if 2-3 times a week was workable and she said ok, but now I feel like Ive taken or violated one of her main sources of power and control. She's told me sex is like dessert to her, to be indulged in as a luxury or reward. I haven't heard from her today.
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