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Sexual compatability isn't at all a bad thing to gauge a relationship on. If you choose to do that however, you will need to keep in mind a couple things.
People's sexual preferences can change over time. They can change orientation interests and sex drives can increase or diminish.
Just like any other facet of a relationship - if you can't find a way to get past it, you'll have to make the choice of whether its worth staying together despite it.
If she gets your engines going and that's your primary reason for being attracted to her while the other more personality characteristics just fill out the puzzle, is that the same for her?
It's perfectly fine to have a sexually oriented relationship. Its chances at longevity are signficantly weaker given the above, and usually requires both parties to mutually choose to make the primary focus of the relationship sex.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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