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Are there any other special reasons you want it to work out? Do you have some sort of melding of the minds going on? It's not the sex, apparently, so what really stands out to you about her other than what you've said? So far, I haven't read anything to suggest she's anything super special, not that I'm saying she's not.
As far as avoiding temptation goes, that's a tough call. I'm pretty sure I've said no to my girlfriend more than she has to me. Which might be never, come to think of it. So I'm not an authority, but I'd say you simply have to either take command (which sounds both unlikely and possibly harmful) or you just have to learn to love jerking it to porn.
A healthy relationship generally needs sex. However, if she is really THAT special, you should be able to handle it, not that you have to.
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It's a rare pleasure in this world to get your mind fucked. Usually it's just foreplay.
M.B. Keene
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