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Old 01-06-2011, 03:24 AM   #2 (permalink)
ellie
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Hi Shauk. I'm new here. But not new when it comes to the lesbian / bi fad.

How old is she? I was actively bi in my early to mid 20's. Before it was considered cool lol. Sounds ridiculous but it really is the truth. Younger women tend to experiment with other women around that age. As they get older though - late 20's to early 30's, reality sets in and for me, I came to the conclusion that it was fun while it lasted but I need to be with men in order to feel like a woman. Not saying I'm opposed to it ever happening again though. If there ever comes a time and it feels right, I just may do it again. Who knows.

Anyways, thinking from a male's point of view, if you can detach your emotions from this girl and you've never had a 3some, 4some, etc., I say hey - jump on it. Another situation like this may not present itself again, if not for a really long time. But you mentioned that you and her were really clicking. And again, it's been my experience that if you click with someone and you try the 'casual sex with a good friend' thing, it will more than likely turn into something more serious eventually causing drama for all involved, including her girlfriend.

I guess that's all I can say right now. It's a good thing all this came out early though instead of later. You have some evaluating to do here. Good luck and I hope you get some helpful replies!
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