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Is it an option to look for a job out there while you're visiting him? 'cause that would get rid of the long-distance problem... assuming that's your only hang-up. Sounds like he wants to make this work, is willing to bend over backwards to do so, and you're more interested in defining your independence. In other words, you're in different places with this relationship. Which isn't necessarily a terrible place to be, but it does make things awkward. Now, if it's an option to get out there, establish your independence, feel out the relationship when distance isn't getting in the way...
Good luck with everything. Hope you figure it out.
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