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Daniel, he would visit, but can't due to lack of time off from work.
Leto, thanks for your advice. That makes perfect sense. I'm not too sure what you mean by "he maybe upsetting you to calm his desire to see you", however. Could you clarify?
Zenda, at the time this was going on six months ago, there was an unrelated issue going on. We were seeing other people for a while, partly because of his absence, and partly because neither of us were sure if we wanted to keep pursuing the relationship. There was a misunderstanding between us, end result of which was I wasn't sure if I wanted to continue seeing him even on a casual basis. Shortly after that took place, he offered to buy me a ticket to come visit him in Ottawa. I declined repeatedly, but in the end gave in.
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Looking back on your perspectives on this issue, and what I've written, I think it probably is mostly that I'm not sure where I want this relationship going.
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cheers to the motherland
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