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Based on your description alone, this "boyfriend" sounds awfully controlling. Offering a flight and wages is one thing, but being upset by the refusal sounds an awful lot like a control freak to me. If you are opposed to this, recognize that you have free will and an opinion of your own, and if you ever want him to recognize that fact you will have to continue asserting it. If you give in, you've essentially conditioned him to believe he just has to keep trying and you'll eventually give in.
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