Hi Ellie
n00b to n00b
You're telling me neither of you like this situation, both of you are frustrated by it, your man is being patient, and your doctors say that this is to be a slow process.
I was boyfriend and husband for 17 frustrating but patient years in a relationship which included long periods of zero sexual hunger. I hereby let loose a dang loud and long inward howl as I remember my frustration, but I do not regret one moment of my patience. I look forward raising a glass at your eventual Tilted-Forum Project 'Celebration of Resumed Activity and Enjoyment' Thread. I also look forward to this happening
no sooner than your natural course takes.
I remember riding on the bus and pushing the back of the seat in front, to make the bus faster and get me home sooner. As it was, home had waited for me, and I hadn't needed to push, and I'm echoing the words of Jewels and Noodle, and fully support your working closely with your new psychiatrist who is obviously factoring your desires and needs as well as your stability into your treatment plan.
Best wishes.