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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
Giant disclaimer: There are two sides to every story and I haven't heard hers.
Having said that, did you actually turn over your testicles at the marriage ceremony? Dude, you aren't being a douche - she is, although you are being so passive aggressive you are pretty much enabling her to behave this way. Marriage is about compromise. There is no compromise in this current situation. I think you need to go into the garage, find the box you put your nuts in and strap them back on, walk in Sunday morning and proclaim that "from this time until this time this television will be on this channel. Period. If you would like to discuss this like an adult and quit belittling my needs, I'm open to it. Otherwise, you can carry your ass down to the bedroom for a lifetime movie until the game is over."
When you go out of town for Bachelor parties, do you tell her you are going to wine country rather than Vegas? Just asking.
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That is true, I tend to try not to rock the boat, and there are always two sides to every story. All I can tell you is my side, and try to be as honest about it as I can. For instance I just got off work about 10 minutes ago. I walk in the door, and its on lifetime, now there are some decent things on lifetime, and I have no problem w/ her finishing her show, its not right for me to come home and demand that she change the channel just because im home. However once her show is over, It will be put on something that "we want to watch" and it turns out to be something that I have no interest in whatsoever, but I watch it with her, because I seriously enjoy being around her and am willing to compromise w/ her.
I will try as many have said her, but in not so much tone. Trying to say from a specific period of time on sunday watching the playoffs. I will say it calmly and in a non threating way.
I have tried to talk to her as an adult, and she just says I am being frustrating, then at that point in time refuses to discuss the matter at all. Its like talking to a wall she just stares at her program, and will not talk to me.
We shall see how it goes.
Thanks for the input and advice.