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Originally Posted by sparky28
I have pics of my wife's sister - in her wedding dress - that I sometimes use as masturbation material. My wife would freak if she knew, but what the hell, it's only fantasy.
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I don't know why, but this is absolutely hilarious early in the morning. Is there a story behind this? I gotta know.
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Originally Posted by purplelirpa
The potential is there for it to happen. In my case, I was searching out emotional reassurance from the friend because I moved to a city where I don't know anyone. We happened to find ourselves alone in an incredibly romantic situation. I had already "primed" myself thinking about his friend in sexual situations and masturbating a couple of times looking at his profile and that made it all the more likely for it to happen.
Your boyfriend is also primed, conditioned, etc, to get off to your friends and roommate. It's a little concerning, especially given that these were saved files at one time, which could constitute multiple occasions of such conditioning. There's a potential there for him to be more vulnerable to them if a sexual situation ever does spontaneously arise, where he might not have been conditioned that way before he masturbated to pictures of them.
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Say what? Aside from the fact that you mentioned your cheating no less than 27.8 times in your complete post, there are vastly disparate levels of impulse control and, uh, integrity at play here. Hell, we talked about this when it happened. You didn't prime yourself for cheating by masturbating to Facebook pics, you were in all likelihood going to do it anyway. You set yourself up for it. You initiated. Your logic is like suggesting that because I masturbate to pictures of my former partners that I'm going to turn into a crazy stalker that loves to put Every Breath You Take on repeat. And lemme guess: Marilyn Manson's music and iD Software's
Doom computer game were responsible for the Columbine shooting, too.
I don't buy it. Don't justify your infidelity by pulling the Pavlov card. You're supposed to be an adult, not a toddler raiding a cookie jar.
You wanted to bang somebody, so you friggin' banged somebody. Don't blame it on something trivial like your masturbation habits.
A lot of people can separate those impulses. Fantasy and reality. I've been doing it for years. Don't put the genitals on a pedestal.
"It wasn't me, it was the masturbation! I couldn't help myself." Get the fuck out. Take some responsibility for your fuck-ups.
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Originally Posted by Ananas
Good grief. Why would the thought of the OP asking her friends be so far out of the realm of possibility? Not everything is restricted to your level of experiences or your decision on how things should be. You seem to be hung up on that one concept, without even knowing whether or not the OP actually asked her friends. I don't understand how your analogy fits into the subject. As you stated in the previous paragraph, this is not a fact board, so you wouldn't know what people could or would do in this circumstance.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Stop playing the "my opinion" game for chrissakes. Everything here is a goddamn opinion. You don't have state it. This is a discussion board, not a fact board. This isn't some Harvard School of Sociology peer review (for most users).
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Turns out it applies to everybody,
myself included. If you wanna discuss the finer points of how discussion forums work, we can do it through PM.