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I think it is probably more pyschological than physical - but I wouldnt claim to be an expert on female health issues.
One thing I would say, from my own limited experience of life, is that one of the biggest problems in relationships and one of the biggest reasons that relationships break down, is one partner having a significantly higher sex drive than the other
Without knowing your backgrounds and personalitys and so on, this is the impression that your post gives. It might seem unhelpful, but my view is that a relationship built on these foundations will probably fail. Both sides might think that they can make compromises to the other... but in reality it isnt so easy to do that over a lifetime. If you fundamentally are a lot more into sex than she is... you might get on great, you might be best friends, but I think it will be almost impossible to be together long term. And it isnt so likely either of you can change your fundamental sex drives, And either you will become frustrated, or she will become resentful.
Im sorry if that seems negative.
I also dont mean this in a sexist sense. There are almost as many cases where the woman has a higher sex drive than the man
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