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Cimarron29414 · 12-30-2010, 11:27 AM

I guess the disconnect I am having here is the role the "recycle bin" is playing in all of this. So, you emailed and then deleted your document, and then went through the trouble of emptying the recycle bin - implying you wanted to eliminate all remnants of the doc on his PC. Personally, this is confusing behavior to me, but I will accept it for what it is. In doing so, you reviewed the contents of his recycle bin and found these questionable images. You asked him to "delete" these images (which would basically be clicking "Empty Recycle Bin..." and he refused. So, this implies he "stores" those images on his PC in the recycle bin - a place that is the least reliable place to store files on a PC since they are not guaranteed by the OS to be preserved there forever. It seems strange that one would store files that are so important in a place that is so volatile. So, in order to accept your story, I must accept that his and your normal PC behavior fall far outside of the norm for PC use. I guess that is my trouble with the story and why I question whether you were actually snooping or not.

Had the pictures not been discovered, you would be blissfully unaware that his spank bank has image deposits of your friends in it. I'd probably drop it and return back to the happy place where you ignorantly thought he was perfect.

12-30-2010, 11:27 AM	#54 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	I guess the disconnect I am having here is the role the "recycle bin" is playing in all of this. So, you emailed and then deleted your document, and then went through the trouble of emptying the recycle bin - implying you wanted to eliminate all remnants of the doc on his PC. Personally, this is confusing behavior to me, but I will accept it for what it is. In doing so, you reviewed the contents of his recycle bin and found these questionable images. You asked him to "delete" these images (which would basically be clicking "Empty Recycle Bin..." and he refused. So, this implies he "stores" those images on his PC in the recycle bin - a place that is the least reliable place to store files on a PC since they are not guaranteed by the OS to be preserved there forever. It seems strange that one would store files that are so important in a place that is so volatile. So, in order to accept your story, I must accept that his and your normal PC behavior fall far outside of the norm for PC use. I guess that is my trouble with the story and why I question whether you were actually snooping or not. Had the pictures not been discovered, you would be blissfully unaware that his spank bank has image deposits of your friends in it. I'd probably drop it and return back to the happy place where you ignorantly thought he was perfect. __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly." Last edited by Cimarron29414; 12-30-2010 at 11:30 AM..