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Originally Posted by Ananas
Have you told your roommate and friends about this? If so, how did they react? How do you act around these people now, knowing that your boyfriend not only has pictures of them, but uses their pictures to fuel his masturbation fantasies?
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Seriously? Who does this? A private fantasy that the boyfriend was honest about, and the girlfriend tells her friends? Not only would it be a phenomenal breach of trust, but it'd be far worse than any perceived slight by the woman regarding these pictures. I'm still having a hard time seeing how anyone could be upset about this.
If it were flipped around, guys, would you be upset if you found pictures your girlfriend saved of your male friends and she admitted they were for masturbation? I have a hard time feeling upset by that, either, but I reckon for some it's worse for women to do this sort of thing.
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The rule to follow is go outside your immediate circle of friends to find your masturbatory specimens. No one is saying don't masturbate, just show some respect to your girl.
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I also find the idea that somehow fantasies are inherently 'respectful' and others 'disrespectful' to your 'girl' as disturbing and paternalistic. They're fantasy for a reason.