I think you should be glad that you have a boyfriend who was candid with you about their purpose, because that saves you a whole lot of time spent pretending and resenting. I really think it's unreasonable to be upset about something you found while looking through his things that he was honest about. Especially things that are his own personal thoughts and actions. Policing someone's thoughts or fantasies is a dangerous game. My girlfriend can think, imagine, visualize, fantasize banging any dude she wants. Until she actually *does*, I really have no room to speak.
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