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My 2 cents, it may be tough to get past the "embarrassed/defensive" part from his side. In a way, it comes down to: can you live with it or can't you? What can he say to help you decide that? If nothing, then the conversation may go nowhere. Not to say you still shouldn't have it, but you should understand what you're trying to get from it.
If you think it's creepy that he has these pictures no matter what he says, he is in a no-win situation, which may be what he feels and he may be afraid that nothing he can say can help, and is more likely to make things worse (and he may be right). And you may still never feel better about it. OTOH if you can live with it but want to understand better, you need to have calm conversation about it, which may not be easy at your ages. Either way, it's not easy...
I hope I said something there, lol..... good luck!
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