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monkeysugar · 12-23-2010, 02:08 AM

I'm making a general blanket statement, which could be completely accurate or completely false. Somehow though, I really don't think I'm in the minority on this one. When I masturbate, I'm not always (almost never) thinking about my girlfriend. Sometimes it is a "I'm beyond horny and don't want to treat my girlfriend like a hole in the mattress" thing, sometimes it's just a general maintenance "watch porn or consult ye olde mental spank bank" type of thing. Sometimes there's just a perfectly good boner that needs taking care of in the morning. I could go take a leak and it would go away, but it's much more satisfying to rub one out and then hit the bathroom. I don't personally keep pictures of my ex girlfriends on my computer, but I do have a really vivid photographic memory. While i understand your concern and that you might be hurt by the fact that he has pictures of ex partners and your friends...yeah...the pictures thing is kind of odd, but flogging the dolphin to thoughts of his ex-partners and people he finds attractive? Totally normal. Sorry.

12-23-2010, 02:08 AM	#20 (permalink)
monkeysugar I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross. Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...	I'm making a general blanket statement, which could be completely accurate or completely false. Somehow though, I really don't think I'm in the minority on this one. When I masturbate, I'm not always (almost never) thinking about my girlfriend. Sometimes it is a "I'm beyond horny and don't want to treat my girlfriend like a hole in the mattress" thing, sometimes it's just a general maintenance "watch porn or consult ye olde mental spank bank" type of thing. Sometimes there's just a perfectly good boner that needs taking care of in the morning. I could go take a leak and it would go away, but it's much more satisfying to rub one out and then hit the bathroom. I don't personally keep pictures of my ex girlfriends on my computer, but I do have a really vivid photographic memory. While i understand your concern and that you might be hurt by the fact that he has pictures of ex partners and your friends...yeah...the pictures thing is kind of odd, but flogging the dolphin to thoughts of his ex-partners and people he finds attractive? Totally normal. Sorry. __________________ I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good. Last edited by monkeysugar; 12-23-2010 at 02:14 AM..